Working Christian Mothers

For Christian mothers, one of the most significant decisions after welcoming a child is determining how much to work. This is a deeply personal choice, but the Bible offers wisdom to guide the decision-making process.

Work vs. Motherhood: What Does the Bible Say?

Work is a lifelong endeavor, while motherhood-though it may last 18 years or more-is a season that eventually transitions. Women will have many years to contribute professionally after their children are grown.

Surprisingly, financial security is not one of God’s primary concerns for His followers. Instead, He calls us to trust in His provision:

“Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.’” (Hebrews 13:5 NIV)

God’s Promises for His Followers

True followers of Christ—not just believers—can rest in His provision. This doesn’t mean we sit idly by, but rather that God will lead us to opportunities aligned with His will.

“Through these He has given us His very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature, having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires.” (2 Peter 1:4 NIV)

This verse talks about the “corruption in the world caused by evil desires.” What this means is that, if we are more concerned about having a nice car, home and vacations and thus put our children in daycare 8-12 hours a day everyday, we have succumbed to evil desires.

Nothing is more important in God’s eyes than people and we know this when He summarized the two greatest Commandments: Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest Commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.

If you were a child, would you choose to be with your mother or childcare workers who don’t love you but rather manage you? As Christians, we are called out of the world and into a life of trusting our Lord and Savior. He died so that we could escape the “painful toil and sweat” that came with the curse. (Genesis 3:17)

In order to receive God’s blessings we are to Trust God’s word and act accordingly. If we judge God’s Word as unlikely to help us, we have judged ourselves unworthy of provision- much like Adam and Eve when God gave them information and they ignored it.

God’s blessings often come with conditions, particularly obedience. He doesn’t call us to a life of stress and exhaustion chasing wealth. Instead, He promises to provide:

“Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?” (Matthew 6:26 NIV)

Faith and Financial Provision: Biblical Principles

Mothers who wish to stay home can trust God for financial provision. The Bible teaches the principle of sowing and reaping:

“Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.” (2 Corinthians 9:6 NIV)

Additionally, tithing and faithful stewardship lead to blessings:

“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.” (Malachi 3:10 NIV)

The Widow of Zarephath: A Testament to God’s Provision

A powerful example of God’s faithfulness is found in 1 Kings 17. A widow with only a handful of flour and oil trusted Elijah’s instruction from the Lord. Because she obediently shared what she had left, her provisions never ran out during the famine. This story illustrates that when we trust God- even when it is painful and doesn’t make sense, He will meet our needs abundantly.

Prioritizing Children: A Biblical Mandate

While financial security is important, the Bible emphasizes that parents are responsible for their children’s well-being:

“But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” (1 Timothy 5:8 NKJV)

The Greek word for “provide” in this verse means to foresee and plan ahead – not simply financially, but emotionally, socially, and spiritually.

The Proverbs 31 Woman: A Model for Working Mothers

Proverbs 31 provides an example of a godly woman who works diligently while prioritizing her family. She engages in business, provides for her household, and serves the needy—all while maintaining a strong faith.

Her priorities reflect God’s design for work-life balance:

• “She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family.” (Proverbs 31:15 NIV)
• “She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings, she plants a vineyard.” (Proverbs 31:16 NIV)
• “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” (Proverbs 31:28 NIV)

Balancing Work and Family: Seeking First the Kingdom

Ultimately, God desires that we seek Him first, and He will take care of the rest:

“Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33 NIV)

When we seek the righteousness of God it means to seek to be in rightstanding with God. To put Him and His ways on the pedestal of our life. Whether a mother chooses to stay home or work part time, the key is to seek God’s guidance and honor His principles. Prioritizing children’s well-being while trusting in God’s provision is the foundation of biblical motherhood.

God Will Supply The Needs Of His Obedient Followers

The decision of whether and how much to work is deeply personal. However, Scripture provides assurance that when we trust in God, He will supply our needs. Whether working outside the home or managing a household full-time, Christian mothers can find peace knowing that God honors those who put Him and their families first.

“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” (Luke 6:38 NIV)

Mothers who use their measure of time to be put into the guidance and care of their children until they leave the nest, will be blessed. Their home, being built on the solid rock of Christian values, will produce a safe haven from the world where children feel safe, cared for and loved. And these qualities can never produce “bad fruit.”

Food For Thought,

Lisa

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